Aromas for Lovers and Love Making - The Attraction Oils

LOVERS-Gustav_Klimt_016-wiki-public-domain-72dpi"Lovers don't just finally meet somewhere. They're in each other all along." -Rum

What are the most powerful attraction oils in aromatherapy?

Many of the attraction oils are ancient and have used for thousands of years as aphrodisiacs, to enhance the love bond between couples and increase the energetic frequency for attracting your desired outcome.

Elevating your mental frequency by focusing your imagination upon your heart's desire will have the affect of draining energy out of your old mental pattern which causes it to loses its magnetism and naturally fall away.

In this article you'll find out how the power of scent can help:

  • Attract your soulmate/life partner
  • Strengthen your love connection
  • Enhance your love making experience
  • Get unstuck from creating the same destructive relationship patterns
  • Release an old past love connection and move on
  • Break a bad relationship habit like being obsessive or needy

Experiment with these oils to discover for yourself scents powerful ability to attract.


 Warm, resinous, balsamic, earthy, sweet, woody, spicy
Chemical Family: Sesquiterpene, Sequiterpenol.
Archetype: The Wise Elder and Compassionate One
Keywords: Natural Aphrodisiac, Mood Balance, Promotes Harmony

East Indian Sandalwood Oil is the most potent natural aphrodisiac in aromatherapy. As an aphrodisiac Sandalwood oil increases your libido and sexual response.

Research scientists have discovered the chemical substance responsible for Sandalwood's erotic aphrodisiac effect on our senses. A man's natural body scent is similar in chemical structure as the male hormone testosterone.

Androsterone in light concentrations smells similar to Sandalwood. It appears that Sandalwood oil is similar to a man's natural body scent and, though barely perceptible, sends out a highly effective erotic signal to the opposite sex.

Use Sandalwood oil to enhance your internal feeling of connection with your lover.

Sandalwood oil is also helpful for clearing any blockage from your solar plexus chakra. Your Solar Plexus Chakra connects you to the cosmic desire to manifest your soul life purpose and ensures a strong feeling of self worth, empowerment and spiritual self mastery.

Relives feelings of self doubt, nervousness, fear, insecurity and hypersensitivity.

Opens and clears your emotional centers and is a great aid to those who may isolate themselves due to an overly sensitive or accommodating nature. Sandalwood oil strengthens your ability to make contact with others with an open and compassionate heart.

Diminishes overly egocentric drives and supports your ability to discern the needs and desires of others without feeling overwhelmed by them.

ROSE OTTO (Rosa damascena)

Aromas: Sweet, rosy, floral, exotic & sensual
Chemical Family: Monoterpenol, Alcohol
Archetype: The Athlete and The Lovers
Keywords: Emotional Freedom

A natural aphrodisiac Rose oil's fragrance is legendary.


Rose oil frees the emotions.

Rose Oil's ability to dissolve psychological and emotional pain makes it the first oil to choose for balancing and calming your mind and emotions whether you are male or female.

Considered the fragrance of the Goddess Aphrodite Rose oil is YIN in character and excellent for clearing and balancing the heart chakra energies.

Rose oil's restorative and elevating effect on the spirit and emotions make it useful for healing emotional scars and forgiving old hurts.

Allows you to let go of past relationships and is especially helpful for those suffering from grief and loss.

Calms feelings of inner turmoil, jealousy and rage and is a powerful anti-depressant!

Excellent companion during times of major life transition, i.e. puberty, marriage, birth, menopause, death.

Rose oil comforts and give its gentle support and is useful for relieving symptoms of hysteria, confusion and despair and allows you to gently let go of the old patterns needing release.

Rose oil aids semen production in men and can be used for sexual difficulties.

PATCHOULI (Pogostemon cablin)

Aromas: Earthy, sweet, resinous, woody, exotic, sensual, warm, radiant
Chemical Family: Sesquiterpenol, Alcohol.
Archetypes: Wise Elders and Compassionate Ones and The Lovers.
Keywords: Earthy, Sensual, Aprhrodisiac, Magnetic Attraction.

A natural aphrodisiac Patchouli stimulates the sex glands, increases libido and sexual response.

Used historically to relieve frigidity and impotence in both men and women.





Ylang Ylang 
(Cananga odorata)

Aromas: Sweet, floral, balsamic, exotic, sensual, earthy
Chemical Family:
 Sesquiterpene, Sesquiterpenol, Monoterpene, Ester.
Archetypes: The Wise Elders and Compassionate Ones, Athlete, Protector & Nurturer.
Neurtralizes Negatiity, Stabilizes Nervous System.

Softly sweet and warm the scent of Ylang Ylang III (pronounced "eelang") is more earthy than the other "fractions" of this aromatic plant. Ylang Ylang has an unforgettable intoxicating aroma with sensual overtones.

Ylang Ylang oil's fragrant pale yellow blossoms are traditionally used to grace a new marriage bed with a blessing of love and lasting happiness.

Ylang Ylang oil is effective for reducing emotional blockages in the heart region.

Stimulates feelings of enjoyment and self confidence and can be helpful for overcoming performance anxiety.

Often used in men's fragrances Ylang Ylang is a healing oil for men. Ylang Ylang supports a man's connection and expression of the feminine and intuitive side of his nature.

Helps neutralize defensive coping strategies that can lead to violent forms of communication.

Use Ylang Ylang oil to balance and heal the 2nd (Sexual), 4th (Heart), and 8th (Universal Heart) Chakras.

GINGER FRESH ROOT (Zingiber officinale)

Warm, radiant, spicy, sweet
Chemical Families: Sesquiterpene, Monoterpenol, Sequiterpenol
Archetypes: The Wise Elders and Compastionate Ones, The Athlete
Keywords: Energy Tonic, Aphrodisiac

Ginger root oil's tonic action serves to energize, ground and strengthen your physical body and build your sexual stamina.

A natural aphrodisiac its action according to Chinese medicine is warming and strongly YANG. Ginger oilregulates the body's moisture levels, elevates body temperature and is helpful for treating male impotence.

CINNAMON LEAF (Cinnamomum zeylanicum)
Aromas: Sweet, warm, spicy, radiant
Chemical Families:
Sesquiterpene, Alcohol, Ester, Phenolic Ether, Cinnamic Aldehyde
Archetypes:Wise Elders & Compassionate Ones, Protector & Nurturer, Cleaner, The Lovers, Warrior.
Keywords: Warming, Natural Aphrodisiac, Tonic

Cinnamon oil's warming and stimulating properties make it helpful for overcoming sexual impotence and relieving symptoms of frigidity.

Helpful for recovery after physical exhaustion Cinnamon oil helps build sexual stamina.

Cinnamon oil may relieve feelings of weakness, depression, emotional coldness, physical tension and tendency to isolation.


Use this simple method to enhance your sensuality, increase your libido, powers of magnetic attraction and sexual response.

Instructions for Use:

  • Choose one of the essential oils or blend. Preferably choose an oil or blend that you have an especially feel good response when you inhale it.
  • Choose a particular outcome you'd like to experience.
  • Dispense 1-3 drops of your pure essential oil or blend on a cotton ball and begin to inhale.
  • Close your eyes and inhale your scent as you imagine yourself experiencing your desired outcome.
  • Exhale fully, letting go of your desired outcome fully. Your exhalation is an opportunity for you to release any obsessive feeling or sense of clinging or neediness to your desired outcome. Trust the universe to respond to your desire.
  • Use long slow deep rhythmic inhalations and exhalations. Allow yourself to relax deeply during your visualization practice.
  • Focus on your desired outcome as if it's happening right now. Continue to inhale your scent while experiencing your desired outcome (suggested length of your meditation practice 11 minutes, or as feels right for you).
  • Do this meditative practice with your chosen scent twice daily, on waking and as you're falling asleep.
  • Notice any messages or intuitive guidance you receive for actions to take and write them down after you finish your meditation. Action is necessary to realize your desire in physical form.

aromatherapyaromadiagram-public-domain-imageThe length of time it takes to associate your scent with having attained your desired outcome will vary from individual to individual. Usually a minimum twice daily routine of repeated use of your oil with your meditation practice for up to three weeks is required.

Once your neuro-association between your scent and desired outcome are set your nervous system will automatically begin generating the images and feelings you'll have when you achieve your desired outcome just by smelling your scent.

Simply smelling your scent will generate the feel good feelings you associate with your desired outcome as if it is happening now.

You want to experience the embodiment and frequency shift that occurs when you realize your desired outcome. This will help you attract ideas and synchronous events that are aligned with your desired outcome and speed up its manifestation.

Find out more about using essential oils for attraction (and more), along with recipes to try in my newest award-winning book available on Amazon, The Essential Oils Complete Reference Guide: Over 250 Recipes for Natural Wholesome Aromatherapy.

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†These statements have not been evaluated by the Food and Drug Administration and are not intended to diagnose, treat, cure or prevent any disease. All statements on this website are intended for informational purposes only.

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