Relationship Harmony - Finding Peace Exercise +EO Recipe

Self Discovery is the ultimate spiritual frontier and leads you to the most incredibly satisfying life experiences.

Through self discovery you can have direct personal experiences of universal laws at work. You can know (not  just imagine) what it means to be free and fully self empowered, as well as start attracting the most incredibly enriching relationships ever!

 Signs of Inner Conflict 

Can you answer yes to one, or more of these questions?

  1. Do you frequently get into disagreements with others?
  2. Do you have an ongoing struggle with someone or something in your life?
  3. Do you regularly engage in negative self talk?
  4. Do you storify events in your life?
  5. Do you make excuses for your negative behavior?
  6. Do you have a habit of engaging in gossip?
  7. Do things always seem to happen ONLY to you?
  8. Do you have repeating themes running through your life?
  9. Do you frequently feel depressed, frustrated or angry?

Inner Conflict & Natural Laws of the Universe

Neuro physicists have discovered that everything in the material world comes out of the quantum field or Zero Point field, the Causal level of existence, and is Pure Energy. The Zero Point field has inherent within it certain natural and universal laws of activity.

These Natural Laws of activity are always at work guiding and supporting life’s existence and continuance. Through the power and clarity of your intuition you can tap into these Natural Laws and experience harmony and peace in your life. You can spontaneously discover how to co-create harmoniously with Natural Forces.

The Law of Harmonies

The Law of Harmonies, the third law of planetary motion, was discovered by German astronomer and astrologer, Johannes Kepler.

This law demonstrates that there is an exact harmonic relationship between all things, including people.

Our inner relationship dynamics are also governed by this law. If there is an unresolved inner conflict (whether physical, emotional or psychological) this is mirrored in your outer world.

The elemental kingdom gives rise to material creation. You can see any tendency to inner conflict in your natal astrology chart as conflicting elements (fire, earth, air, water). In Chinese medicine all dis-ease is seen as disordered or dis-harmonious elements (fire, earth, metal, water and wood). 

By the way some of the most powerful and successful people on the planet have strong conflicting patterns in their natal chart. People like Oprah Winfrey and Martha Stewart to name just two. I also have very intense Grand Cross and T-Square patterns in my own personal natal chart. It's what you do with your inner conflicts which show up as personal challenges that makes all the difference.

The Law of Harmonies also works in unison with other universal laws like the Law of Cause and Effect, aka the Law of Karma, or the Law of Causality and the Law of Correspondence and Law of Human Destiny.

Destiny plays itself out on the material world stage, whereas the Law of Grace governs the nonmaterial world of spirit. However, the Law of Grace is the Supreme Law of the Universe and can supersede and transmute all material laws of the universe. 

The Law of Harmony is the most important Natural Law that governs the material levels of existence (physical, mental and emotional). Why is this?

The Butterfly Effect

The Butterfly Effect is the Idea that small causes can have large effects.

Even a tiny act can operate holistically through a network of unseen interconnections to effect or influence outcomes. In other words a minute localized change in a complex system can have large effects elsewhere.

In the material world of cause and effect for every effect, or outcome in your life, there is a specific cause. Theoretically you can always trace any effect or result experienced to a specific cause. This is an excellent source of feedback if you’re able to "connect or intuit the dots" between your actions and your outcomes.

Through this law’s feedback loop you are given an opportunity to learn how to self correct your behaviors and actions to obtain more desired effects or results.

In other words the way you respond to any life situation can result in a different outcome. Change your response and you will change your outcomes. Self defeating behaviors result in self defeating outcomes.

Like a mirror your outer world reflects your inner world. This is just another way of saying your thoughts and actions create your life experience. Embrace the valuable feedback you gather for fine tuning your game plan and strategies for achieving your goal.

This brings up an entirely different question you might like to contemplate. Are you creating your life plan, or intuiting it and acting from your intuition to bring it about?

Finding Peace - Relationship Harmonizing Exercise:

Send out love to the people who you are in resistance or conflict with.

It’s a simple exercise and worth exploring.

Use it to get in touch with your power to shift relationship dynamics between yourself and others, or even within yourself.

Is there is something about yourself you don’t like, judge, or in some way can’t accept? This exercise can help you experience more self love and acceptance.

In truth all conflict with others is a projection of disowned parts of yourself. In other words all judgment is self judgment. Through the 'Butterfly Effect' as you harmonize your inner relationship dynamics you can influence and bring about harmony in the world.

You can also call upon your higher self or guardian angel to help you surrender any inner or outer conflict for resolution.

Essential Oil Relationship Harmony Recipe

Ylang Ylang III (Canaga odorata) - 40 drops.
Neutralizes negativity, harmonizes nervous system.

Neroli (Citrus aurantium) - 20 drops.
Promotes peace, beauty, self love, heals trauma, shock. (may substitute Sweet Orange).

Sweet Orange (Citrus sinensis) - 20 drops.
Promotes playful attitude, inspires happiness.

Rose (Rosa damascena) - 20 drops.
Promotes emotional freedom (may substitute Rose Geranium).

Sandalwood (Santalum album)
Supremely harmonizing (optional)


    To 5ml (100 drops) colored glass euro-dropper bottle add your pure essential oils. Cap bottle tightly and shake vigorously to blend oils thoroughly. Allow to synergies for 12 hours or longer before using.

    How to use:

    Dispense 1-3 drops on cotton ball, or perfume smell strip and inhale for 10 seconds of longer. May also diffuse into the air, or use as an aromatic mist, or dilute (5-10%) in carrier oil to use as a perfume oil.

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